Life may not always be easy, but it is always simple. There seems to be a myriad of choices we can make, but there’s really only three.
- Will we choose to accept things as they currently exist?
- Will we exert enough effort to make them different?
- Or will we make them different by negotiating?
Since Attitudes are the Keys to Everything, I Try to Keep the Following in Mind:
- Attitudes of courtesy, consideration and respect for others can bring out their best by making them want to be their best.
- While you can’t control what happens to you, you can control the Attitude with which you react. Make good manners an automatic reaction.
- Have a sincere Attitude. Look for individual opportunities to give a genuine compliment.
- Remember that sincere, enthusiastic and optimistic Attitudes are more welcome than sarcastic, pessimistic and lazy Attitudes.
- Wear fun loving Attitudes. Laugh with others, never at them.
Although I must have been aware of their influence, on some level, before corresponding with PaulVan den Brande – The 4PL Coach from the Just in Time Management Group of Bruges Area, Belgium, https://www.bpma.be – on LinkedIn, I lacked the means to articulate the following limitations regarding attitude. Although my teacher from Belgium shared with me the the following capitalized Attitude barriers, PaulVan den Brande’s thoughts are likely much deeper and more clear than mine, so I feel responsible for telling my readers that the thoughts about how these Attitudes affect me are my own.
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